HEAL GROW GLOW

It’s been over 6 years since you arrived in Kampala and almost 10 years since you attended my cousin Nadia’s wedding. You’ve come to Canada 1–2 times since I had my personal breakdown and experienced blatant disrespect from Belinda Katumba and her associates, who had zero context.

We’ve noticed that you both share things about people and businesses that aren’t accurate, and speak negatively about people you’ve also collaborated with and relied on to build your “following” and “community.”

That includes Timothy and Wamala.

You both use men in opprotunistic ways, and it’s clear.

Meanwhile, these are people I considered friends. Rachael you have been following “ModeAfrik” to know exactly who Timothy was before you acted like his bestie. Stop doing that. You’ve done this since high school.

Ask Markus! Same pattern.

You enter a space, city or school and act like I didn’t exist before your arrival. You act like you are so central to my connections. i.e the Bitature’s.

Did you know that my paternal side knew the Bitature’s before they knew you? My friendship with Pimpi isn’t because of your mom and her mother.

These are people I did life with off the gram.

Wamala and Timo are two men that I would rather stay in the same house with and trust than you or Belinda. It already happened in school. Wamala would help me when I needed to avoid Omi at 240 Temby when I was 24.

Thankfully, Leah met me and Timothy after she gave birth to Amari.

Rachael Nalumu needed Nadia Matovu, and Belinda Katumba needed me, Kabasigyi Mulera, in order to “take off” in these digital marketing careers and Kampala creative circles post 2021.

This cannot be debated, especially when your own siblings, like Tracy and Julius, know me well enough and understand the reality of Kampala networks and how businesses operate.

Stepping on us and over us has been disrespectful on levels that could have been addressed and reversed years ago. You both met my parents.

Have you considered how your actions have impacted us, and how the stress you create affects not just individuals but the overall health of a family and community?

At a certain point, the harm caused outweighs whatever you’re gaining, and it would be more responsible to step back and choose something that doesn’t create this kind of strain.

Rachael worked in the restaurant industry, and Belinda used to show off how her dad could get her jobs, and that she could quit at any time. Have you considered professions that feel less like a high school drama show and more like taking accountability and ownership for your actions, as well as your family and community responsibilities?

Remember the median age of Kampala. Remember that creating value means considering the well-being of the very people you needed to get to where you are, and the kind of influence you’re creating through gossip, exclusion, and an abuse of power.

Why have I considered your parents and family more than you can even pause to apologize?

That has put us in many uncomfortable positions within our families and friend circles because we’re connected to you, and it has impacted how others experience us and what we’re associated with.

We are not associated with creators who use and abuse their privileges and access. Witnessing the strain between Timothy, me and Wamala should have been enough for both of you to reconsider your actions and modes of earning a living in Kampala or online.

Timothy lost his mother in 2020.

Wamala lost his sister in 2021.

I have been going through serious strain since 2016 due to my mother’s diagnosis and my own. This means it’s not that simple to “restart,” “rebrand,” or “laugh on a YouTube channel” like you guys do, especially when you have parents who either enable or have given up on re-parenting adults who have their own apartments and ways of generating income from others in their circles.

Have you ever considered anyone other than yourselves?

We’re no longer going to be part of conversations or content where people are being misrepresented or talked about behind their backs, and we don’t want to be included in, tagged in, or associated with content that could mislead people or create unnecessary conflict like what happened with Duchesse in 2025.

You guys have had enough time to simply APOLOGISE.

Not even a creative video to address your audiences………………?

You can run your YouTube platforms how you want—we’re just being clear about what we will and won’t be part of.

Thank you, Timothy and Wamala, for your contributions to my life—for showing me what friendship is outside of whatever these girls have been doing, and for supporting my health and recovery and expanding my cultural exposure more than once. Through the storms and pain, I will never forget the small acts of kindness that never ask for an audience’s applause.

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